Saturday 12 October 2013

tips to keep your woman locked down and truly happy

Good morning friends,
been ages I've been up here to post on a blog
yeah I hear you****** no excuses this time.
no worries dears, I am certainly not the first to have a gizillion things doing, but good thing is I always ave ya'all in mind 24/7. 
 So am here to share stuff I shared with an acquaintance who claims to be ''a new man''.I figured out you all will find these info's pretty useful.Especially my married and about to be married friends. 
 p.s : Hoping am not leaving the babes out o! only its so much fun finding stuff to tell men for once you know (giggles) coming from a culture that most often has stuff to tell ladies all the time concerning 'keeping your man locked down (yawns).I am glad that I can be instrumental to the reversal of roles today, even if its for this moment. (sighs) So here goes, tips to keep your woman locked down and truly happy...(note the words truly happy,it's one thing to be locked down and another to be to truly happy in that state!) 
After all I just heard a cynic say today, that wedding rings are the smallest hand cuffs available so... every body gatz to know exactly what they're getting into before saying ''I do'' (very true words though,even though they seemed to be laced with cynicism) 
where did i stop? ah haa.... tips to keep your woman locked down and truly happy 

1.Taking your role of financial provider for his family's basic living expenses seriously ! this means keeping them financially sound and debt free

2.Accepting that family comes first, distractions come later

3. Include your wifey in planning your vision for the future this entails Seeking consultation from your wife on all major financing decisions,Discussing household responsibilities with your wife and making sure they are fairly distributed.
4. Be willing and accepting of your wrongs...true men are actually able to say  "I'm sorry", " please'' and,Forgive me"
5.Accept spiritual responsibility for your family, in prayer and in actions.This includes, Praying with your wife and kids on a regular basis and being being involved with other men dedicated to spiritual growth. 
6.  Following through with commitments you make with your wife.
7. Respecting your wife in public and in private, 
8. Telling her what you like about her often,discuss your marriage and anticipate the different stages your marriage will pass through.Gone are the days when women were given this odious task to carry alone.
7. Taking  time out, to give his children practical instructions about life, this will naturally entail anticipating, the different stages his kids will pass through and preparing before hand
8. Actively contribute to Managing the schedule of the home and anticipating pressure points, this includes Initiating meaningful family traditions,fun outings and  establishing sound family values to boot
9.Encourages you wife to grow as an individual, provide time for her to pursue her own personal interests and dreams, be that push that would thrust  her into lime light! Guy it takes two strong pillars to hold the roof top of a house firmly!
10. As hard as this may seem to say, make sure you and your wife have drawn up a will ! why is it easy to find couples talking and fighting about joint account, when issues like joint wills are ignored ehn...drawing up a will doesn't mean you re counting your days...(seriously!)
11. Discuss sex with each child in a way that gives them a wholesome perspective (those of you with teenagers...hmmn...there's enough to lead them the wrong way!...What with Miley Cyrus  and Riri tweaking for all the world to see
12. I know...I know... you'd be asking me ''what do you mean?'' but its the darn truth and am not deleting this  Let your wife and kids know the real you! please  let her into the interior of your life! its absolutely ridiculous that you put up that facade with those closest to you.Its an indirect way of saying 'hey I don't trust you all' which is not supposed to be.If you say you love them then its perfectly safe to let down your guard and let your vulnerable side come out.
so what do you say ladies....(giggles) do I  speak your mind?